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Gakked from omphale23 and a bunch of other folks.

Based on an exercise developed by Will Barratt, Meagan Cahill, Angie Carlen, Minnette Huck, Drew Lurker, Stacy Ploskonka at Illinois State University. If you participate in this blog game, PLEASE acknowledge their copyright.
Bold the items that are true.

* Father went to college -- Yes. He started at a seminary, dropped out after meeting my Mother, and then went back for a degree in social services. And, yes, I did use him as a source for some info in "Father Confessor".

* Father finished college -- Yes.

* Mother went to college -- Yep. Mom was an English teacher.

* Mother finished college -- She has a BEd, and later went to RISD to get a Masters in the visual arts.

* Have any relative who is an attorney, physician, or professor -- Nope.

* Were the same or higher socio-economic class than your high school teachers -- My Mom was a teacher, my dad was first a social worker and then a prison administrator, so pretty much exactly the same class.

* Had more than 50 books in your childhood home -- Yes. In fact, I think I had more books than that, personally. All I ever wanted from people as gifts were books.

* Had more than 500 books in your childhood home -- Probably, and especially if you count the large revolving library collection I had. I would bike-ride to the library weekly and load up my panniers with another stash. I read about a book a day from the age of 8-17.

* Were read children's books by a parent -- Yes, sometimes, although I remember feeling a bit guilty about taking up my parents time with it, and so I was very excited to learn to read for myself.

* Had more than two kinds of lessons before you turned 18 -- I remember a few weeks of piano lesson, a few gymnastics lesson that I abhorred, and I took horse-back riding lessons for a few months , until we ran out of money for them.

* The people in the media who dress and talk like me are portrayed positively -- Yes, although that's partly because my Mother was insistent that we dress and talk like newscasters. I was NOT allowed to have a local accent, use speech patterns common in my extended family that weren't grammatically correct, etc. I thought correcting people's speech was what you did. Which made a WONDERFUL impression on other children and my kindergarten teacher, as I recall.

* Had a credit card with your name on it before you turned 18-- Yes, when I went to college at 17.

* Your parents (or a trust) paid for the majority of your college costs -- Yes, although I carefully chose the college and worked out a series of grants, scholarships, etc, to make the costs more manageable.

* Your parents (or a trust) paid for all of your college costs -- Nope.

* Went to a private high school -- I went to a religious high school, Society of Friends (Quakers). Which was a large financial burden on my family, even with the scholarship and book fund, but I was both deeply miserable and woefully under-educated at my local high school. I may have also implied Divine Inspiration for my sudden desire to go to the private school. Umm. Looking back, that was sort of naughty.

* Went to summer camp -- Yes. The Tupperware corporation ran a summer camp for it's employees' children. I'm still not sure how I qualified for that, but apparently I did. There may have been ninja paper-work involved.

* Family vacations involved staying at hotels -- No. Motels or camping.

* Your clothing was all bought new before you turned 18 -- No. K-Mart, JC Penny, and used clothing stores.

* There was original art in your house when you were a child -- Yes, if you count my Mother's paintings, the furniture she made, the rugs she wove, etc. She was an artist in her spare time.

* You and your family lived in a single family house -- Yes. My great-grandfather willed us his house when he died. I was ... oh, 4 at the time.

* Your parents owned their own house or apartment before you left home -- Yes.

* You had your own room as a child -- Yes. I slept in the living room until I was about 9. By that time my Dad had refurbished the attic and made it into two bedrooms.

* You had a phone in your room before you turned 18 -- No.

* Participated in an SAT/ACT prep course -- No, I always aced those things, never needed any prep.

* Had your own TV in your room in High School -- No.

* Owned a mutual fund or IRA in High School or College -- No.

* Flew anywhere on a commercial airline before you turned 16 -- Yes. My grandparents took me on a trip to Disney World to celebrate their retirement.

* Went on a cruise with your family -- Nope.

* Went on more than one cruise with your family -- Nope.

* Your parents took you to museums and art galleries as you grew up -- When we went on road trips, we would drive around, sleep in camping grounds, and hit the museums during the day.

* You were unaware of how much heating bills were for your family -- For some reason, finances were a big secret in my family. They would argue about the bills after I went to bed.